Fab Parties…No Invitation!!!

So, it’s that time of the year where there are all kinds of parties, gatherings, get togethers and everything else.  From Christmas parties, to New Year’s Eve parties, it is on.  Some of these fabulous parties, you will be invited to, and some of them, you won’t.  So here’s the scenario.  Your friend is having the hottest Christmas party in town, and guess what???  You weren’t invited.

Your thoughts???  “I thought we were BFF’s.  I thought we were at least cool.  I thought she/he liked me.”  I mean this was your road dawg.  Your ace-boon-coon.  Y’all did everything together, and yet, you did not get that coveted invitation.

You know what???  Don’t even sweat it, cause the truth of the matter is, you didn’t have the money anyway.   Money for what???  Money to buy a new outfit, shoes, accessories, and getting your hair did.  You know, the works.  On top of that, you would have had to buy a gift for the host/hostess which is yet, more money out-of-pocket. 

Such is life.  Take it with a grain of salt, and keep it moving!!!  It is what it is.  Believe it or not, people won’t invite you to their affairs, simply because they are jealous of you.  You are fabulous and not everybody can accept that.  I know rejection is something that we don’t like, but it happens.  

So in this situation, where the so-called friend didn’t invite you, consider it a blessing.  They weren’t a true friend to begin with.  Not only that, think of all that money you just saved.  Your wallet will thank you, and you will thank you later!!!

Merry Christmas to all, and may you have a happy and prosperous New Year!!!! ~Smooches Dah-ling~


1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. TheFashionistaChic
    Dec 30, 2010 @ 02:20:03

    This post makes me sad, If a girlfriend did that to me it would hurt my heart. I understand you taking the high road. But I thinks its a trend in our culture for caddy behavior by women. An ladies we are so much better than that. I am thinking of doing a post on Frenemies. WHAT DO U THINK?


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